Importance of Special Moments & Events in a Relationship

Holidays and special days are meant to be good times to remember. Among loved ones, the occasion, the activities involved, the pictures taken, as well as the location of the special event and special moments shared should be nostalgic and etched into the minds of the couples.

Therefore it is essential to derive utmost fun, pleasure, joy and more importantly share love as well behave in a manner and attitude to dispense care, commitment, maturity and understanding, all of which need to be coupled with the spirit of togetherness.

You want the two of you to fondly remember the experience of that special occasion with much emphasis to the moments and fun activities which the two of you spend time on and you’re involved in together as a loving couple. Moreover, you want to set a loving tradition of celebration — kind of an anniversary — that you could be partaking from time to time together. This will help you rekindle those special moments and times that you spent together and help improve your relationship.

For instance, if your relationship is rocking in the storms, the nostalgic memories of good and happy moments that you two shared joyfully, when your love was much stronger and intact can work mysteriously to renew fading love. In some instances, you need to grasp the lovely environment of those joyous moments during a special occasion to use it to express inner your most feelings and gratitude to your lover.

In addition to that, you may find it appropriate, which is advisable; to use those special and rare times to renew your commitments to each other. It’s also an awesome moment to renew vows, promises and to also review and make necessary amendments to your goals and objectives which you’ve set as a couple.

In as much as special moments and occasions need to be seized to express personal feelings, thoughts and emotions to a loved one, they also are the best times to address problems and obstacles experienced in the relationship. Of course, it’s never a smooth ride in any relationship. Some issues such as a partner’s daily schedule, career advancement, partner’s family engagements, finance and other domestic issues are best addressed in times of happiness and joy.

They may ruin the happy moments, which can be anticipated, but all in all they need to be addressed because they are vital in improving the well-being of the relationship. Use these occasions to address such problems.

There are also some incidences whereby a special occasion such as a weekend getaway, an evening dinner away from home or the celebration of an anniversary e.g. vows renewal, are the best and appropriate time to extent love and show compassion and care for a partner who may unfortunately be ailing or suffering from other bad diseases such as breast cancer, or any type of cancer for that matter. Such a partner needs unconditional love, care and emotional support to get the desired courage to continue hoping in life.

To be honest, it’s usually a challenge and a daunting task to think of an upcoming special occasion while your partner may be sick and can’t even participate in his/her normal daily duties. You will find yourself worried, sad and confused at what you’re supposed to do.

The preparations and responsibilities that often accompany the special occasions and events may be overwhelming. You may find yourself wondering how you are supposed to enjoy the special moment with your loved one who is sick and is receiving treatment or coping with side effects.

Yes it’s sad. Nevertheless don’t get worried or swayed about by sad feelings or thoughts which may compel you to forgo the occasion. All what such a circumstance entails is the need to effectively plan ahead factoring in your partners heath and find the best ways of getting the most out of the upcoming special occasions or event amidst the challenge of coping with a sick partner.

Use the special occasion or events to express your tender loving care and infinite support during the sad times that your partner may be going through as he/she battles the sickness. Renew your commitment and let your partner know that he/she has a shoulder to lean on.